![]() ![]() stands for: A -AccessibleĪre you and your partner open and accessible to each other? R – Responsive ![]() ![]() When you’re feeling unloved and unwanted, you’re likely feeling that you can’t answer that question, “are you there for me,” affirmatively. They’re fighting about the question, “ARE you there for me?” What couples are fighting about when they are really in trouble with each other and feel miles apart is usually not what they think they’re fighting about, e.g., money, family issues or even parenting styles. This foundation can be remembered with the acronym “A.R.E.”Įach letter stands for key factors that must be present in your relationship for it to thrive. Sue Johnson, the creator of the most proven form of couples therapy that exists, known as Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, describes the foundation of a strong relationship with an easy to remember acronym in her best selling book for couples, Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love(which I highly recommend, and suggest to every couple who steps into my office to read). In this post, we’ll take a different look at what may be going on underneath the surface when you’re feeling unloved and unwanted by your husband and share a new perspective.ĭr. Feeling unloved and unwanted by your husband or boyfriend is a terrible and lonely feeling that can have an impact on every area of your life. ![]()
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